You can’t have your cake and eat it too

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Have you ever wondered why some people effortlessly achieve their dreams, while others watch from the sidelines?

As a kid, I questioned everything. Sometimes it got me into trouble—other times, it led to amazing insights.

When I heard the phrase “You can’t have your cake and eat it too,” I always thought, Why not?

I recently heard it again and decided to explore its origins. Interestingly, the saying dates back to Thomas Howard, Duke of Norfolk, advising Thomas Cromwell during King Henry VIII’s divorce from Catherine of Aragon. Simply put, Howard meant: “You can't keep the cake and also eat it.” (Thomas Cromwell was King Henry VIII’s chief minister, instrumental during his reign.)

Just like Cromwell couldn't retain political power without sacrifice, we too must learn to balance our aspirations through careful prioritization.

This reminds me of another powerful saying from productivity expert David Allen:

"You can have anything you want—but not everything you want."

How These Sayings Connect (And Why It Matters)

At first glance, these two phrases might seem contradictory, but there's actually a powerful connection. Both remind us that our resources—time, energy, and attention—are limited. Achieving extraordinary things means making clear, intentional decisions and prioritizing wisely.

"Choosing your purpose is the most powerful decision you'll ever make."

You must decide what's truly important. Without intentional prioritization, your greatest goals remain distant dreams.

The Four F’s Framework: Faith, Focus, Finish, and Fun

This practical framework helps you prioritize effectively and achieve your dreams:

✅ Faith: Believe deeply in your ability to succeed. Faith carries you through challenges, providing strength even when success feels impossible. Without faith, dreams fade quickly.

✅ Focus: Ruthlessly eliminate distractions. Focus channels your energy toward what truly matters. Without clear focus, you risk drifting aimlessly through life.

✅ Finish: Starting is easy; finishing is where success lives. Achieve your goals by staying committed until the very end. True fulfillment comes from completion.

✅ Fun: Enjoy the journey. Inject joy into your process—it fuels motivation and prevents burnout. Fun makes success sustainable and enjoyable.

As Stephen Covey once said, “The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.”

Or Mark Twain's wisdom: "The secret of getting ahead is getting started."

Which of these four areas do you need to strengthen right now?

Practical Steps to Start Today:

1️⃣ Write Your Primary Goal Clearly: Experience the relief and confidence that comes from absolute clarity. Make it vivid, specific, and tangible. ("I earn $5,000 per month from my side business by December 31st.")

2️⃣ Remove One Distraction Immediately: Identify a major distraction holding you back. Eliminate it today to regain your focus and feel the freedom that comes with clarity.

3️⃣ Set a Deadline and Commit: Clearly define when your goal will be achieved. Write it down and place it where you'll see it every day. Feel the strength and satisfaction that comes from daily, intentional progress.

4️⃣ Celebrate Small Wins: Reward yourself regularly for small achievements. Feel the joy and motivation each small victory brings, pushing you closer to your ultimate dream. (Science supports this!)

Imagine your life goals as a beautifully layered cake—rich chocolate dreams, sweet vanilla aspirations, topped with a sprinkle of happiness. Do you savor one slice at a time, fully enjoying each taste? Or do you hastily devour it, leaving behind only regrets?

Not prioritizing clearly is like rowing a boat without an oar—you're drifting aimlessly, hoping you'll somehow reach your destination.

But when you prioritize intentionally? That's like grabbing the oar, steering your life confidently toward the success you desire.

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Until Next Time…

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